Maggie's Musings - Middle School

Welcome to Maggie's Musings - words and wonderings from Maggie Granados, Assistant Head of School for Lower and Middle School and Dean of Studies JK - Grade 12.

Mrs. Granados will be posting here regularly. Please be sure to scroll down to read more and check back frequently for updates.

A Fond Farewell

As Mrs. Granados heads towards her last day as our Assistant Head of School for Lower and Middle School we asked her to take to her blog, “Maggie’s Musings” one final time about her experience working at The Wardlaw-Hartridge School.

So long, farewell … I hate to say goodbye!

I am genuinely sad to be leaving my W-H family after four fabulous years but also excited for the future and exploring Massachusetts, my new home state!

Life at W-H School has never been dull. Over the past four years I have probably:

  • discussed the ins and outs of our Lower and Middle School schedules  200+ times
  • asked “how can I help you?” 3000+ times
  • celebrated 100+ events big and small (memorizing a speech, losing a tooth, performing Shakespeare, bravely improvising in jazz band, celebrating a holiday)
  • answered the phone with “good morning/afternoon, this is Maggie Granados” 1,000+ times
  • learned over 5,000 new things
  • traveled throughout New Jersey and beyond, to five other states (including California) to attend or present at conferences where I whole-heartedly promoted this fantastic school and the innovative teaching and learning that happens here
  • contributed 472 blog entries in two different blogs (I am told I may be slightly overselling my efforts here. The number probably came in somewhere around 37.  I suppose there were days that it felt more like 472 for the writer as well as the dear reader!)
  • led assemblies or participated in student-led assemblies over 100 times
  • said thank you to different students, parents, and colleagues for various reasons 4,500+ times
  • laughed and was otherwise delighted too many times to count

… and I have zero regrets!!

To our students, I commend you for all you have accomplished and achieved over these years I have spent with you.  I thank you for giving me the opportunity to watch you grow more poised and confident in your capabilities.  I wish you the very best in your years ahead and I pray that they will be happy and fulfilling ones for you and your families.

I would like to thank everyone for making me so welcome at the beginning and for the continued joyful spirit our W-H community provides. I have been lucky to work with kind, intelligent and enthusiastic people, young and old!  I am excited for the growth and opportunities that are up ahead for all here with such skill, talent, and care coming on board.

For this and so much else, I am full of thanks and bid a fond farewell!!

Maggie Granados x

Posted by mgranados on Thursday June 15, 2017 at 05:07PM
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Q & A With Our Middle School Head for the Day

Shankari, a member of The Wardlaw-Hartridge School’s Class of 2022 and Middle School Head for the Day on May 19, 2017, took some time out of that busy day to share her thoughts with Mrs. Granados as guest blogger.

MG: Shankari, first of all, congratulations on being the Head of Middle School for the day.  When you looked over your agenda, what were you most looking forward to today?

Shankari: When I took my agenda home the day before I was Middle School Head, I was most excited to go to Mr. Jenkins office and visit Mr. Brandl with him as well. I know as a fact that Mr. Brandl publishes the Beacon and it sure is very interesting to read.

MG: Shankari, some people may say that Head of Middle School is a busy leadership position.  I would agree!  I like to think that through all of our Wardlaw-Hartridge Middle School experiences, we are preparing our students to become future leaders.  What do you think makes for a good leader?  What are the essential qualities for excellent leadership?

Shankari: Being a good leader and excellent leadership really depends on several factors, some of which include: spending time with the peers around you, confidence, having knowledge of what goes around your surroundings and your peers, and having the ability to connect with the people around you and understanding their ideas and points of view.

MG: Can you think of ways so far in your life at W-H that you have been given the chance to learn to be a leader?  Has there been a time in a class you can share with us where you have practiced making decisions, taking a stand, or being “in charge”?

Shankari: When rehearsing “First Witch” for Macbeth, I was able to help others in our class who were having a difficult time memorizing their lines. It was a lot of fun and an exciting experience!

MG: Tell us, Shankari, what do you enjoy most about The Wardlaw-Hartridge School?

Shankari: Wardlaw-Hartridge has always felt like a home for me ever since first grade. The teachers are exceptionally nice and my friends are full of such happiness and optimism. As a person myself, I have grown so much throughout the years and have changed as a person. Wardlaw-Hartridge has made me someone that I was not before coming to this school.

MG: As the year winds down, it’s a great time to reflect on the year of learning we are completing.  What is something exciting you learned this year?  Why is it interesting to you?

Shankari: Exciting! Well something exciting I learned this year was the Study of Elements and other Compounds in science class. There is such a variety in our elements and without that variety, Earth would not be able to exist. They all play such a vital role in our lives.

MG: Shankari, we have some pretty interesting things that happen in our Middle School beyond the classroom.  Do you have a particular favorite? 

Shankari:  Particularly, I enjoyed visiting Mrs. Swenson because she is the College Counselor and she gave some good background about the type of scores that you are expected to receive to get into certain Ivy League or other top colleges. I was impressed with all she knew about that.

MG: Next year – eighth grade!  What is something you are looking forward to next year, Shankari?

Shankari: I guess for one is that having Dr. Crafton as my English teacher and having an amazing experience in her English class. This even includes performing “A Midsummer Night’s Dream” (or another Shakespeare play) at the end of the year in eighth grade.  I’m really excited for the year to come!

MG: Here’s the last question for this interview, Shankari (you’ve been doing great).  I firmly believe a great Middle School Head gets up and enthusiastically looks forward to each and every day.  Monday you are back to seventh grade.  It will be a fantastic day.  So tell us, Shankari, what are you looking forward to come Monday?

Shankari: It was certainly an amazing day and thank you Mrs. Granados for making it one. I would have to say on Monday I’m looking forward to the dress down day that I declared as Middle School Head. I’m also quite thrilled for the upcoming half day on Friday. That will be nice indeed.

Thanks to Shankari for her guest contribution to the blog and for being an excellent Head of Middle School for the day.


Posted by mgranados on Thursday May 25, 2017 at 08:51AM
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Civility and Respect - In Middle School and Beyond

Sometimes inspiration for these blog posts comes from unusual places.  Often it is a snippet of conversation heard in a hallway, an interaction between two students or a student and a teacher in a classroom, or sometimes an idea is prompted by a great question from a parent.  Then there is the inspiration source that strikes from out of the blue, like the magazine I found in the back of the seat on a recent plane trip.  The April 2017 issue of Oprah Winfrey’s magazine, O, was there.  I had never read a copy before and was glad for the distraction it offered as my book was buried deeply in my carry-on and my iPad’s battery life was waning. 

In her editorial preamble to the issue, Winfrey riffed on two rather old school ideas that never went out of style but may just be needed more than ever, civility and respect.  Here’s a good flavor for what she wrote:

 “I think respect is the key concept so much of our culture has forgotten.  Through reality shows and the Internet, we’ve been fed a steady stream of incivility that models rude behavior.  We’ve become used to people treating others badly; it doesn’t shock us anymore.But the end of civility marks the end of life as we know it.  Of life as we should want to know it.  Do we really aspire to be citizens of a world that doesn’t value regard for one another?”

Winfrey goes on to promote phones down while at the table eating… and eating as a family routinely.  She also encourages her readers to pay attention to others.  “I’m posing this question: How many people do you encounter in a day whom you don’t really see?” 

In Middle School it is easy to be overlooked.  Our students are not the little ones who garner lots of oohs and aahs for their efforts; and they are not the older ones with pressured achievements and accolades. Yet their accomplishments as middle schoolers are many and varied, though not always seen – right at a time when each and every student’s sense of self is particularly fragile.  Being noticed and being kind are very important all the time, of course, but especially at this age and stage. 

And a tween or teen being respectful and civil – particularly when in a group of peers – can, to those who work with or live with the adolescent, feel positively counter cultural. So I am delighted to have recently come across Winfrey’s thoughts, and have used the lens she provided liberally to inspire my work as an educator and mother.  The work to be present, to pay attention to people who may otherwise go unnoticed, to be grateful and to be kind is unending, so very valuable and worth insisting upon.

As Oprah says, “Sometimes that’s all it takes.  A little civility can cross big boundaries.”  She is absolutely right - you should see the amazing things it does in Middle School.


Posted by mgranados on Thursday April 6, 2017 at 09:45AM
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We All Come from Somewhere - Even Brooklyn

World Language Day is being held this week at The Wardlaw-Hartridge School.  Each year I am mightily impressed by the level of language competence our Middle School students showcase.  For some, the ones who have been studying a language for just a few years (or less), their abilities in Spanish, Latin or Chinese are remarkable.  For others, who have been studying for far longer, it is inspiring to see how they can express themselves in another language accurately - sometimes with sensitive expression or humor and often with gusto.  At some point during World Language Day we typically take a moment to learn what other languages are spoken by our students – the ones not taught in our classrooms, but, instead, in their homes.  It is astounding!  That question and its many responses drive home what an amazingly diverse community we are.

This year for World Language Day something slightly different will be happening.  I will be actively participating by reading a stanza of a poem.  Mercifully, it is mostly in English.  There are, however, a sprinkling of Spanish words throughout.  Gulp!  I am an exceedingly self-conscious student of language.  I will feel badly butchering the words, embarrassed by my poor ear for another tongue.  It is fair to say I approached this year’s World Language Day with trepidation… and downright anxiety. 

Enter our wonderful students.  I candidly put my poor skills and worry out there, and before you knew it I had an amazing support system.  Students offered to email me pronunciations of the words, others asked if it would help if we went over them in the morning before advisory started or even during lunch.  As I walked out of the AP Room doors at the end of a long school day, a student called to me, “Remember, Mrs. Granados, remember the /c/ in abundancia!”

When I think about it, the thing I have always been the most self-conscious of in my own language study has been my accent.  Surely, I have always thought, my Brooklyn accent is showing.  Surely, I sound like someone from Brooklyn trying to speak another language.  I must sound horrible.  I shared this worry with a few students as we laughed and again reviewed my poetry stanza. One student quickly retorted,  “Mrs. Granados, we all come from somewhere, so we all speak another language like we come from somewhere – even Brooklyn.” 

Our students are awesome.  They are accomplished language students and, too, are outward facing and sweetly encouraging, even to their Middle School Head!  I don’t think it will be pretty when I get up and share my poem, but I am grateful to our language teachers for this opportunity to push myself, to grow, and to lean into the warm, authentic support of our fantastic students.  Apoyo en abundancia!

Posted by mgranados on Wednesday February 15, 2017 at 09:30PM
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What Do You Want to Know... and Why?

Middle Schoolers ask great questions, especially when guided by something called the Question Formulation Technique (QFT), an approach used often in many of our Middle School classrooms.  An interesting group called The Right Question Institute has been working for 25 years on this particular technique to teach students how to  effectively pose questions to develop greater understanding.  It has been touted in the Harvard Education Letter, the Journal for the Association for Middle Level Educators, and even the National Institutes of Health has shown that the QFT produces dramatic increases in activation and improved communication.  Teachers at W-H would enthusiastically concur., as it hones and manages students’ thinking abilities in a very short period of time.

Clearly, there is something to the QFT.  What’s it all about?

The QFT has three simple components: produce questions, improve questions, and prioritize questions.  When introduced to a topic or at a time to review it, our Middle School students are asked to come up with as many questions about it as they can.  They may not stop to discuss, judge or answer the questions, but, rather, write down every question exactly as it is stated.  Next, questions are improved by categorizing the questions as closed- or open-ended.  Finally, the students prioritize the questions generated when they are asked to choose their three most important questions and reflect on why they chose those as the most important. 

It turns out, all those good questions get even better with time, practice and direct teaching.  As you can see, QFT is a structured technique, and, interestingly, whether used to introduce, review or conclude a topic of study, it provides students with new knowledge and empowers them to set their own agenda for further learning Often used in our science, history and English classes, QFT has helped our Middle Schoolers develop science experiments in STEM activities, create their own research questions in Capstone, and even think more deeply about a challenging reading assignment.  I’m delighted to see our skilled teachers put a researched technique to work in our classrooms and, better still, see it free for our students to think deeply and critically as a result. 

Posted by mgranados on Thursday January 19, 2017 at 08:24AM
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Opportunity Defined by our Middle Schoolers

December, for me, is a lot about lists.  All of our media outlets are busy counting down or counting up movies, songs, books, events and even people of the year.  My to-do list at school grows, shrinks and grows some more as we move from weeks to days to hours before our school break begins.  I confess my kitchen table is home to a couple of different lists I check in with every evening to be sure my busy family stays on track. There may even be a gift list or two in the air at which I will be compelled to take a gander before too long.  Yes, lists are everywhere right now.

In spite the work and action those lists present, this, too, is a time of year for reflection.  What have been personal and collective successes?  Where are the opportunities to do better or be better?  What are the guiding forces and ideas speaking most clearly to me? 

Such contemplation and the subsequent goal setting that comes from it, like those lists, is not just a personal activity.  Smart and centered schools engage in it as well. As a school directed in its mission by powerful guiding principles, now is an excellent time to make space to reflect on them, and to see how deeply rooted they remain in our school community.  I happen to believe our core value of Opportunity should be particularly meaningful in the life of Middle School, and in the lives of middle schoolers.

So, in the spirit of lists and in the spirit of reflection that seems to be a large part of what December is about in our world, I sat with several or our wonderful Middle Schoolers and simply offered a prompt.  They did all the work of fashioning an excellent list for us all to consider:

“Opportunity in The Wardlaw-Hartridge Middle School is…

… the chance to be part of a sports team and really participate on it.

… interacting with interesting International Students who teach us what it is like being our age in a totally different part of the world.

… the chance to meet with your teacher and have a second chance with an assignment that you didn’t quite understand the first time.

… getting to try out for the Upper School Musical.  Even if you don’t get in it this year, you can keep on trying, and everyone here keeps an open mind and sticks with it.

… having lots of different performance opportunities, like our recitals and concerts where we get to show what we are learning.

… that I am able to be a part of every class no matter what gender I am.  There is never a teacher who directs all the questions and activities to only one gender.  There are even a few sports where boys and girls can be on the same team.  I think that being co-ed is a great opportunity.

… being part of small classes where our teachers really get to know us.

… having the right number of students in our grade and in our middle school, so we are able to meet friends and get to know them better as a result.

…having the chance to try something new after school like robotics, chess or sports.

… amazing overnight class trips.

…being able to vote!  We get to elect student council representatives who bring our ideas to the administration.”

And, it would not be an authentic gathering of our W-H middle schoolers without some oldies but goodies enthusiastically cited as well:

“Opportunity in The Wardlaw-Hartridge Middle School is…

… recess!  We are so much luckier than my friends at another school who don’t get to go outside and run around for recess.

… lunch!  We have choices on the hot food line, at the sandwich and salad bar areas, even with soups. “

It was a lively conversation, and warmed my heart and inspired my work to see that here at the end of 2016 our core value of Opportunity is flourishing right along with our wonderful students.

I hope your year concludes peacefully and happily, and that you have the happiest of holiday seasons.  On to 2017!

Posted by mgranados on Thursday December 15, 2016 at 08:04AM
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Academic Rigor in Middle School: The Value of Debate

Last week I had the opportunity to attend two of the eighth grade “warm-up” debates, experiences that will prepare students to be even stronger debaters in January, when each eighth grader will participate in a judged debate.  Our students will be guided to incorporate and build upon the feedback they receive this week.  Even in this first go, I was impressed with the depth of research undertaken by the students, the demands placed on them to think on their feet, actively listen, and respond, and the high bar we set for them to be effective, persuasive public speakers.

I was so stimulated after seeing how high we asked our eighth graders to reach and how well they responded, I took on some research myself.  I’d like to share with you some insights that celebrate the power of providing formal debate experiences for our Middle schoolers, and helps explain why we think it is a challenge well worth posing to our students in our classrooms.

Why should students learn and participate in debate?

For the Experience in Itself

Debate has been fittingly described as an intellectual sport. As with any sport, the thrill of competition and the uncertainty of outcome serve to energize the whole team.  A good debate is both serious and playful. Debaters soon become skilled enough to achieve what my students call "the zone," or what psychologist Mihály Csíkszentmihályi calls optimal experience or flow – the experience of focus and complete involvement in an activity that is often "so enjoyable that people will do it even at great cost, for the sheer sake of doing it.”

- Jon Kendall. “The Case for Debate: Intrinsic Motivation for Thinking and Writing.” Association for Supervision and Curriculum Development. April 10, 2014

For Improving Learning Outcomes

Critical thinking and argument skills – the abilities to both generate and critique arguments – are crucial elements in decision-making… In all careers, academic classes, and relationships, argument skills can be used to enhance learning when we treat reasoning as a process of argumentation… This is not only important for assuring students are equipped to compete in the marketplace of ideas but also to maximize their own cognitive development more broadly.

- Rabbi Shmuly Yankiowitz. “A Society with Poor Critical Thinking Skills: The Case for Argument in Education.” Huffington Post. October 13, 2013

Getting Ready for the SAT

Two years ago, the College Board announced that they are making changes to the SAT. The most fundamental difference is the focus on evidence-based argumentation (read: debate). The new SAT “had been redesigned with an eye to reinforce evidence-based thinking… students will get a source document and be asked to analyze how its author used evidence, reasoning and stylistic elements to build an argument.” (Source: New York Times, 3/5/14)

For Business

Debaters must do exhaustive research, be flexible, get to the point and have the courage to discard just about everything they learn on the fly. In other words, debate teaches them to make tough choices.

“If there is a single lesson of debating, it's to know your opponent better than they know themselves,” says Scott Deatherage, head of the Northwestern University debate team, winner of six of the last 10 national championships. "We teach how to make decisions under pressure and in a timely fashion. My sense is that CEOs are called upon to do that.”.

- “Debating Skills Come in Handy in Business.” USA Today. September 29, 2004

In College Admission

Indeed, for rigorous learning in its many forms, the experience of formulating opening and closing remarks and on-point rebuttals along the way is hard to match.  It is why I love that we instruct our Middle schoolers in forensics and give them opportunities to hone their developing skills.  It is hard for them, but so energizing and interesting to them, they keep at it!  It will be interesting to see how far our eighth graders come between now and January.  I’ll be sure to post some of the highlights from those January formal debates back here on the blog. 

Posted by mgranados on Wednesday November 16, 2016 at 07:12PM
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Can You Be in Sixth Grade and Still Be Top Dog?

Not that long ago, I read a thought-provoking piece on NPR’s digital media.  Entitled, “Sixth Grade Is Tough; It Helps to Be Top Dog,” the article shared compelling and comprehensive research that demonstrated episodes of social aggression and academic decline are far reduced in schools where sixth, seventh and eighth grade were part of a K-8 configuration, as opposed to a 6-8 or a 6-12 one.

Author Anya Kamenetz wrote, “In the K-8 schools, those (sixth grade) tweens and young teens were the ‘top dogs’ – the oldest, the most comfortable and familiar with the school.  But in traditional middle schools and 6-12 schools, sixth graders were the ‘bottom dogs.’ “

Unfortunately for us, a PK-12 model was not studied in the research.  That is too bad, as I think our particular configuration - all of us on one campus, all in one large, wonderful, sprawling, connected building – is of similar if not even more beneficial merit.  

I look at our lower schoolers and particularly our fifth graders and the carefully planned ways we introduce them at just the right time to the middle school experience and what it can be for them.  There are aspects that are wildly anticipated (The panini press! The overnight trips!  The iPad! Walking to classes on their own!) and there are those flavors of middle school that are unlocked over time, (having a steady, supportive advisor, interesting elective clubs, playing as a whole middle school at recess, the depth of study and rigor experienced in the humanities, math and science).  It all comes together and builds a sense of anticipation in our young students and establishes our current sixth graders as informed, accessible role models.  They are never the low-man-on-the-totem-pole, but, instead, valued and admired by those not yet in middle school.

That is something that inspires our sixth graders.  They get to be ‘top dogs’ while still very much being sixth graders.  Through ongoing support and supervision of our students, our developmentally appropriate and enriched program of study designed just for this age and stage, and through our tightly knit community, we are a thriving middle school model and a distinctive alternative to the 6-8 schools around us. 

Kamenetz’s piece can be found in its entirety by clicking here

Posted by mgranados on Wednesday October 19, 2016 at 11:03PM
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Starting the Conversation

Our administrator blogs here on the website were created with two goals in mind - a short term (but recurring) one and a long term one. It was a way we could show you the amazing things our students do every day here at The Wardlaw-Hartridge School. That was the short term goal, and this space, I hope, works well to support it.

The long term goal was to create a better, more enjoyable, more distinctly W-H way of talking about independent education, the W-H philosophy, our pedagogy, and, again, of showing the trials and successes of your children, our students. This blog is the illustrated, annotated, serial story of the W-H Middle School.  Over the course of the year, photos and guest bloggers will help me share our Middle School story with you.

Blogs are just one of the many ways in which W-H communicates with its community. Why do we take such efforts? We believe The Wardlaw-Hartridge School's mission is realized in its fullest potential when parents and families take ownership of their child's education, are proud to be a part of the school community, understand the benefits and value of the program, and feel a true zeal to work toward W-H's long term success.

The most vibrant and critical transmitters of communication are, of course, your children. In Middle School, though, it is not unusual to hear less from your children as they work very hard to make their school world their own.  So we balance giving our Middle Schoolers autonomy and responsibility in communication with you, with stepping in and communicating information to you on their behalves. But it is not just your children that we teach, work with and coach. W-H’s parents, alumni, grandparents, friends and community all are integral to what makes our school special; we want to communicate and partner effectively with each of you.

We hope that by reading publications like the administrator and teachers' blogs and the weekly WHEN updates, joining us in our annual informational meetings like Back to School Night and the Coffee and Conversations, attending monthly Parents’ Association meetings, taking advantage of your teachers' availability after school and my open door, and going to the school concerts, pot-lucks, graduation, Fall Fair and the Spring Gala, you will develop a deep sense of pride and understanding in what your family is a part of here at The Wardlaw-Hartridge Middle School. 

The year is new. 

The conversation has just started. 

The fun has just begun.

Let's go!

Posted by mgranados on Thursday September 22, 2016 at 10:45AM
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The first week of school might be short on days, but it certainly is not short on things to do. Our students jumped right in!

Pre-Kindergarteners found their way to and from the gym for their first PE class, while the eighth graders plunged into looking at the methods of a scientist.

It always takes courage to start a new year or to come to a new school, especially a school that is quite different from what you already know. This year we are delighted to welcome 54 new families to W-H’s Lower and Middle Schools! 

Thursday marked The Warlaw-Hartridge School’s 134th opening, and rolling on from the Convocation Ceremony, we have a lot of interesting, amazing things to share with you. Project-based learning, gardening, STEM activities, MakerSpace, computer coding, Shakespeare, robotics and more - this blog space will not only focus on what makes us different and amazing throughout the school year, but also will be where we share the inspirational, the humorous and the just plain good stuff that happens in our classrooms.

Watch for things like Links We Love and Postcards from the Classroom, as well as guest writers, guest photographers, and topics that have impacts far beyond our walls. I hope you'll look forward to reading about us as much as I look forward to writing to you. 

In short, welcome to what I know will be a fantastic 2016-2017 school year! 

Posted by mgranados on Thursday September 8, 2016 at 12:59PM
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