What We Can Learn from a Senior

Senior Celebration is always one of the highlights of our year in College Counseling. It’s a time when seniors can step back together and take stock of all they have accomplished. If you’ve been reading my blogs over the years or have come to any of the College Counseling events hosted by Ms. Birnhak and me, you will be familiar with our firm belief that the college process is about so much more than where our students get in. It is truly a rite of passage, one in which they are pushed to deeply reflect on their values, their sense of self, their goals for the future, and learn how to navigate some very hard things – uncertainty, disappointment, external pressure, and so much more. Our greatest hope is, if we’re doing this right, that students walk away with some important insights that will not only set them up for a successful college experience, but a successful life. 

This past Friday, I saw these hopes come to fruition as I scanned our College Counseling Bulletin Board full of words of advice from our seniors for our juniors as they prepare to pass the torch. Here are some of those highlights: 

“There is no such thing as a perfect school. Not a single school will always check off all the boxes. What matters is finding a place you know you can thrive, grow and find happiness at!” 

“Don’t compare yourself and your goals to others.”

“Think about what you want to do in the future and what you find meaning in and center your life around that. Don’t do anything that goes against your values.” 

“Rejection really is redirection! (even if it doesn’t feel like it yet)”

“Never lose hope. You will end up where you belong. Just remember to prioritize yourself and take breaks. Good luck!!”

“Don’t overthink. It’ll all work out. Don’t procrastinate. Work hard and you’ll have a great year.” 

“Remember to also make time for yourself and what you love. Cherish the memories you make.” 

“Write for yourself and your story! Only you can share something special.” 

“This process works out for many people, but it can come with many disappointments, too. Keep trying. Where you want to go might not always be where you end up, but trying and doing your best is worth it anyway.” 

“Enjoy senior year. It goes by fast and you will regret not living it to the fullest.”

Ask any veteran teacher and they will tell you that some of the most profound lessons they’ve received in life have come from their own students. As we march towards Commencement, I could not be more proud of the Class of 2026 for the lessons they have learned and the wisdom they have imparted on all of us.